Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Tony Stewart and what doesn't happen with attitude.



I would like to first let those who are a bit confused about what I am talking about,to explain it.
Tony Stewart,a NASCAR team owner,Driver hit and killed Kevin Ward Jr another driver,age 20 when he stepped out of his car to confront what is to be said Tony over crashing. He was bumped and came to a stop,seconds later the video showed Kevin getting out and walking on the track where other drivers were still participating in the race.

The shock hit the social media like a ton of bricks. Many and I do mean many accused Tony of purposely hitting Ward. Now everyone is entitled to their opinion but what was being said was he hit him because of his anger issues. I have anger issues. My ex husband is bi polar. We have never hit and killed someone with our cars. Although this is a theory that out of anger he might have done such a heartless thing,its just that a theory,a thought and a rumor. 

The crash was video taped and there was no sign he purposely hit a hot headed 20yr old. Now I give my deepest condolences to the Ward and extended family of this young man. But experts,not us fans but experts have stated that any driver anyone in this business knows the safest place is in your car (if not on fire of course) and in the pit. Ward sadly should have waited if he felt he really needed to confront someone till he got to the pit. 
Another one was many people avoided him yet Tony hit him. He actually stumbles out of the way of one car by mere seconds..that car didn't try to avoid him, HE avoided the car. Bottom line he should have not been on that track. 
Bless the kids heart because at 20 your adrenaline is pumped and your thoughts are to a place where you are invincible.

Now something I stated just a ways back said that we are fans not experts. As fans we might know a lot about the sport and the being of some of these drivers but that's where it about ends. We have known Tony for years so we can say his anger does show but Ward we really didn't. A lot of us also are not Tony fans. I apologize to his family as it must be so tough dealing with all this. I myself do not follow Tony as I am not a fan. But I do know that if it was someone else everyone would have never said what they did. 

Truth is Tony has been driving for years,why now to hit and kill someone?
Also the media will drag and blow the shit out of this story so if you see where "Tony almost raced the day after killing another driver" then your gullible and that's sad. Media is met to get you all fired up. Just think if that was your driver that you love and admire and watch every race and hoot and holler for I bet your opinion would be very different.

I would like to clarify I don't know what to think about this whole thing,that's up to the detectives and cops to figure out. I do believe it was a unfortunate event that could have been avoided. I at this time believe it was unintentional. I think Ward should have had a cooler stance until after the race or in the pit.

I also know lots of other athletes who have FAR worse anger issues then Tony yet their story was more or less swept under the rug. For example I do not know if anyone heard of the EX UFC fighter, Joshua Grispi beat his wife and ended up siccing his dog on her. His dog is now possibly on death row and his wife is dealing with a lot of mental anguish. That story never hit my fb feed. Tony's did over 10 times. 

Lots of us have the same temper as Tony. We stand up and shout at the football team's who defense is acting like a bunch of morons. We get just as grumpy as fans so what tells you if you were the ACTUAL driver or the quarterback that you wouldn't act the same way. In this case I truly don't think Tony was out to get Ward in any way. In some cases it is the "one with a attitude" fault. We have seen it. We have seen the stupid childish shoving matches on the football field. We have watched the heated yelling arguments in wrestling. We have been or have seen how heated parents get at little league. We have seen just about it all. 

RIP Kevin Ward JR. Let your passion for driving land you fun times up above. 
Let Tony and his family deal with this.
And here to the cops,detectives and more that has helped with the investigation.

Anger issues does not make someone a murderer.

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